Excuses .....
So I was brought to me ... The way in which discipline was applied in the home of the parents is probably the major cause of child abuse today.
Children learn in their family of origin how to govern their lives, as it treats women, wife, children, parents, problems, etc. .
already tried everything and did not understand ... hitting The inability of parents to meet the demands of children tends to the level of reaction to them is increasingly lower, more primitive, reaching aggression as the only means of response.
When I get angry because I can not control ... We're talking temperament: a poor impulse control is often a problem of temperament. In these cases it is common for the parent abuser has intense feelings of guilt for having beaten or abused the child, but can not be controlled.
born by accident ... When the child's birth came to disrupt life plans of their parents.
exists in some people, the tendency to get even with him making his life as miserable as his birth made with your own.
is that I I give everything and watch how they respond ... Every time a child is born and grows, parents, family and friends have a series of expectations for this child. When you are not satisfied, either because they can or because their interests are others, runs the serious risk of abuse.
The difference between what was expected and that includes the child's gender, abilities and disabilities, etc.
I am concerned and this child does not understand ... personal problems, employment, economic, etc., Tend to lose our ability to handle frustration.
If we are unable to separate the outside world of the family, problems the child of ours, we tend to abuse.
This is especially problematic when there are relationship problems and more if there is violence in the relationship.
There are also specific diseases that put us in risk maltreatment of children, this list gives some of them: Depression and anxiety These conditions are almost always related and often leading to abuse children.
Alcoholism and Drug There are people in "your 5 senses" are very good loving and caring parents but under the influence of alcohol or drugs become real monsters of abuse. psychosis (madness) This condition is self-explanatory. Sadism This is the pleasure produced by the fact the suffering of others, physical or emotional and is a dead end. sexual deviations sexual desire for a child can produce a violent backlash against that child and physically abusing a way to keep him away, saving a relationship culturally rejected the physical and emotional abuse.
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